a penny for my thoughts...cause that's probably all you'd pay

Its been a full week since we began our potty training adventure and I'm exhausted. Its not like newborn baby exhaustion though - I still remember that all too well, but nonetheless, I'm bushed! We have had our ups and down, poops and pees, good times and bad, but he's potty-trained. The last diaper worn was the one I removed last Monday morning. My brain can't function enough to calculate the savings thus far on not having to buy diapers, but I'm sure it is a lot!

This process has probably been one of my biggest challenges as a parent so far. It might have been the method that we used (http://3daypottytraining.com) - it was very intensive in that I had to be by his side and watch him like a hawk for the whole 3 days (something I'm not used to and worried how it would happen cause I LOVE my space!)

However, despite the constant physical proximity to an underwear-wielding toddler, I learned quite a bit about both of us.

* The redhead is very smart - this I already knew, just got to see again firsthand. He picked up on telling me he had to go potty by the end of the first day.

* He has a wonderful spirit and a great sense of humor - this I already knew too, but got to appreciate again as we spent much time in the bathroom (check out his angel face as we wait out another pee).



* Only God can give us patience and He showered it on me this past week in an incredible way. I was able to be supportive and encouraging in the middle of the night while changing wet bedsheets and a urine-soaked toddler.

* I truly enjoyed not blogging, but instead spent precious time playing with my son and seeing his imagination and creativity.

* I also saw the importance of both parents in this process. I had two appointments I had to keep last Monday and Tuesday and it worked out that Mr. Baseball could be home with the redhead. He picked up right where I left off and did a great job while I was gone.

* I learned that M & M's are a great reward for potty-training. They're also a great reward for tired mommies!

* It feels GREAT to have a potty-trained child. Each day gets better as he continues to "get" it. Our night have been good too - he just woke up dry for the 4th morning in a row. Of course we still have had to get up in the middle of the night with him when he needs to pee.



Redhead, your daddy and I are so proud of the big boy you've become and we're soooooooo proud of you for using the potty! We love you!

the scoop on the poop

Well, we've made it to day three sans diapers! Here's a small recap of each day:

Day One - definitely the toughest so far!

* All 19 pairs of underwear/boxer briefs were wet within the first 4 hours.
* Cleaned up lots of pee-spots on the carpet and couch
* Stayed dry through naptime (1.5 hours) - this was big!
* Finally started to "get" that he had to tell me when he needed to potty - usually it was when he couldn't hold it any longer.
* Had a crying fit prior to a HUGE pee; received a matchbox car for being so brave
* I got so frustrated at one point in the day I slammed my hand down in karate kid fashion on the floor whilst whispering the F-word. No permanent damage sustained. This moment was not witnessed by the redhead.
* Two accidents over the course of the night, a small disruption in sleep
* No poops

Day Two - much better than day one

* Only went through about 6 pairs of underwear
* Got pretty good at telling us when he needed to potty
* Still got a little scared when he felt the real "urge to go" - lots of encouragement and praise will be needed for a while on this issue
* Kept underwear dry for longer intervals
* Stayed dry for another 1.5 hour long nap
* We got poops! - his reward was a meal from Chick-Fil-A!
* Only had one accident overnight (we did wake him up to take him potty)!!

Day Three

* so far so good - no accidents
* one Big pee with another one expected any moment.

Thanks for all the positive encouragement. Even though it is a 3-day program, his training is far from over. It is still going to take a lot of diligence on my part to keep him in line. I'll post another update soon.

** Since I've been chasing the redhead around all day and rushing him to the pot, I haven't had the chance to take any pictures of his cute tushie in underwear, but maybe I can get one soon. It is adorable!

it's go time...literally speaking

Today is a momentous day in our household.

Today my baby boy will set out on his quest to become a big boy and it will all begin by exchanging these...

with these...

That's right friends, today begins our 3-day potty training adventure. I'm excited and the redhead is too. I've been telling him all week that babies wear diapers and big boys wear underwear and pee-pee and poo-poo on the potty. I've read up on what I need to do and I'm ready to do it. Underwear a plenty has been purchased (19 pairs in all), rewards and treats are at the ready (stickers and M & M's along with Matchbox cars for those really proud moments), and I've got the potty chart all set to go to track his success.

By the time you read this, he'll already have his big boy pants on and there will not be a diaper/pull-up to be found in our abode.

Accidents...oh I know they will happen - and often over the next couple days.

Frustration...it will come, but I can't let it show - this is all about positive reinforcement.

One thing I am absolutely sure of is that failure is NOT AN OPTION. I refuse to look back. He's ready and I'm ready, so off we go!

I'll only be able to check back in and give updates/pictures while he's sleeping since I have to watch him like a hawk the rest of the time. Hopefully, I'll be able to share the whole rundown on Thursday at some point.

BTW, if you're curious about what method I'm doing, here's the website...

http://www.3daypottytraining.com

I covet your prayers and encouragement, especially from those of your who have been in my shoes. And Nan, we'll probably be talking at some point over the next three days. Be prepared!

polishing a piece of the past

Next Wednesday will mark one year that my precious grandmother has been in heaven. Even though she is sorely missed, I am thankful to know that she is no longer living with Alzheimer's Disease, not knowing the faces of those who were closest to her. Now all she sees is the face of Jesus and those she loved who preceeded her entry into heaven.

Over Christmas, my dad and mom, along with redhead and I, spent one night (it would have been two if it hadn't been for the dreaded stomach bug...again) at my grandparents home. The house holds many memories for me - staging childhood plays with my cousins, playing piano for a captive audience of aunts and uncles, my first viewing of "Pinwheel" on Nickelodeon (we didn't have cable when I was younger), the list could go on and on.

Once vibrant and full of life, the house now stands dark and lifeless. The two that made the house their home have passed on from this life into the next and now it simply holds their precious belongings, most of which are slowly being divided amongst their four children and 11 grandchildren.

I have been fortunate enough to receive several items of great sentimental value from my grandparent's home. My collection includes three paintings that hung in various rooms of the house, a salad plate from their everyday china that we always ate off of, a crystal serving platter and vase, and some necklaces from my grandmother's collection. All of these items hold tremendous meaning, but three items in particular are the most special - a Revere Ware stock pot and two frying pans.


I realize it probably seems a little odd for me to cherish pots and pans as sentimental items, but allow me to explain. These pots and pans are by my best guess at least 30 years old, but probably older than that. They are the only ones I ever remember my grandparents using.

I can still picture my grandfather in his bathrobe and slippers, hair unkempt from a good night's sleep, standing at the stove scrambling eggs and frying bacon in the frying pans. He always made cooking a big breakfast a priority when we came to visit and by-gosh even if you weren't hungry for a big breakfast, you were going to sit down at the table and eat something.

After breakfast was over, someone - either my grandfather or grandmother would get right back in the kitchen and scrub those pans for their next usage.

To say the pans have been well-worn is putting it mildly.

This past weekend my mother-in-law and I were in her kitchen when I noticed that the pots and pans she was using looked similar to the ones I had just inherited, with the exception being that the bottoms of her pans boasted a shiny copper color. I asked her about it and she said that her mother was meticulous about shining her cookware. And I have to say, for about 50 years old, these pans looked almost brand new. I asked about products to bring back the shine on my pans and she shared with me her secret weapon, which I immediately tried to find when I arrived home. I wasn't able to find exactly what she had, but what I did find did the trick (even if it did feel like it was singeing the top layer of my corneas).

Here is what the bottom of the large frying pan looked like before:

and here it is in a side-by-side comparison with the polished stock pot:



Here is what about 30 minutes of scrubbing and several rounds of cleaner can do (please excuse the terrible lighting):




It was a major difference.

I feel as if I have revived a piece of my past and in a strange way, honored my grandparents by loving something that was theirs, no matter how simple or mundane. To someone else, these pots and pans might be mere cooking tools, but to me they represent the passing from one era into another - the making of something old into something new again.

new year's mish mash

Happy New Year! - at least to the two people who read this blog. I kind of feel obligated to write something today 1) because its New Year's, and 2) because I've been gone quite a while.

But I have no idea what to write.

I could write about all the things I learned in 2008, but it's too early to think that deeply - and besides, its a holiday.

I could write about all the things I hope 2009 will bring, but Obama's already told us.

I will say though, I am quite enjoying being able to fill up the Jeep for only $30.00. Glorious.


We were visited with another round of the stomach bug while traveling over Christmas. Thankfully, nothing exited unexpectedly from my body or the redhead's, but I still felt a bit crummy.

And thanks to my parents and other family playing with the redhead 24/7 over the week we were gone, his expectations of me have become somewhat skewed. He needs a sibling...

We are traveling again this weekend to do Christmas with Mr. Baseball's family, so I'll be back in full force on Monday. Next week (or the following week) will bring some new challenges as we enter the realm known as........................................................................................Potty training (cue music - duh duh duh...).

I think he's ready - at least I've got two things going for me. He doesn't like his diaper changed, and he HATES for his clothes to be wet. We'll see...

I'm off to play with my tot, but Happy New Year to you all! What's going to be new in your '09?

hoochee book club review - the letters

This is a true statement (as written in my profile):

"Unfortunately I didn't inherit the "Loves to Read" gene from my family. Unless it's really good (which is anything by Francine Rivers) then I usually don't read it."

Until now.

I have branched out and decided to join my friend Ainsley's on-line book club.

Our first assignment was to read The Letters by Luanne Rice and Joseph Monninger.

Here is the description of The Letters as found inside the book jacket:

Sam and Hadley West are both trying in their own ways to survive after the unthinkable loss of their only son in Alaska. For Sam, a sports journalist, acceptance means an arduous trek by dogsled across the bleak and beautiful arctic wilderness to find the place where Paul died. For Hadley, it means renting a benignly haunted, salt-soaked cottage off the Maine coast, where she bgins to paint again.

Now at opposite ends of the country, waiting for their divorce to be finalized, they begin to exchange letters by post, missives filled with longing and truths they've never before voiced, as they recall their marriage - its magic moments and its challenges - and begin to redoscover the reasons they fell in love in the first place.

As Sam risks his life to reach the remote crash site, Hadley begins an equally hazardous inner journey to a rendezvous with the mad grief of a mother's heart. At the place where all else is lost, they will meet again...


My Review...

For me, having just come off the euphoria of "The Twilight Saga", The Letters was hard to stomach. It moved along rather slowly and I personally found it a little boring. The story line - a couple struggling to communicate following the death of their child-was very true to life and I appreciated how Sam and Hadley were able to express their deeper feelings and hurts through their writing. At first it seemed as if Sam were much more interested in reconciling their marriage than Hadley, but as the book progressed and I read more of their letters, I could understand that she too was looking for reconciliation - a lot of which came through their writing.

Luanne Rice made a good choice in having Joseph Monninger write from Sam's perspective. I thought it was interesting how differently Sam and Hadley processed their grief. He pursued closure in a very tangible way by going to the crash site, while she expressed a lot of her feelings verbally through her letters to Sam (in addition to her painting).

I found myself wanting more substance, more drama out of The Letters. I also caught myself wanting there to be more characters to follow as Sam and Hadley seemed a bit melodramatic at times.

The ending proved to a be the only curveball thrown in this very predictable read. That's all I'll say in order not to spoil it for anyone who hasn't read this book.

The Letters was an easy read (even when I did have to force myself to keep reading) and a good choice for the first book of the Hoochee Book Club. I can definitely say though that I am very glad I didn't fork out the $22 Books-A-Million was asking for it.

Even though this wasn't my favorite book, I am looking forward to growing as a reader and can't wait to see what Ainsley comes up with next!

christmas hoedown

We've been practicing for weeks to get this right. Merry Christmas Ya'll!

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

dear santa,

You are totally real. I still believe in you, even though I am 31 and now have a child of my own.

And I was ROBBED, I tell you - years of innocence, awe and wonder, violently flushed down the toilet I was delicately perched upon.

Its all her fault, Santa - the all-knowing older sister who executed her most sinister undercover operation to date. Her powers of deduction were unparallelled - how mom and dad used the same wrapping paper you did, and how you and dad had the same handwriting.

The evidence mounted and she felt compelled to report her findings to me, an unassuming five year old. Not only that, but she could not wait for me to exit the bathroom before she spewed forth the "truth" of your non-existence.

I will tell you Santa, I was more than shattered.

I mean, what kind of a world is a world with no Santa? And I ask you, who finds out there "is no Santa" whilst seated upon the porcelain throne?

If you ceased to exist, that would render null and void all of my most favorite Christmas programs...

* Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer
* Frosty the Snowman
* Christmas Vacation
* Christmas Eve on Sesame Street
* The Grinch Who Stole Christmas

...and I'm just not having that, no siree.

Despite what some grown-ups might say, I know you are real. And I know Mrs. Santa is real - I spoke with her on the phone one Christmas Eve many years ago.

I realize there's not much time left before Christmas and you're bound to be busy, so I'll get right to the point. Here's my wish-list for this year:

* Addison Road CD
* Running Shoes
* Wii
* New Baby (I realize you aren't really the one who should help me out with this, so can you pass on a good word to the stork for me? Thanks!)
* Bras/underwear (it is WELL past time for some new unmentionables)
* clothes (I won't disclose what size because you already know that)
* Pocket-Sized Bible
* Newsies DVD - so I can watch Christian Bale dance around and sing his cute little heart out. He was at least 18 when that was filmed right?)
* Tae-Bo DVD's or new Firm workout program


Thanks Santa. I know you focus on getting presents to children for Christmas, but I'd really appreciate it if you could make a special stop for me. I'll leave you a little money with the cookies, milk, and carrots to offset your traveling expenses. With the current price of sleigh travel, no doubt you could use it.

See you next week!

Caroline

P.S. Please bring a Milkbone with you so Lijah doesn't bark and wake the redhead up when you arrive.

an early and unexpected christmas gift that needs to be returned to the place from whence it came...and my prophetic gifting

We had a full weekend.

Friday night, the redhead and I ventured over to the retirement center our church founded for crafts and caroling with the residents. Later that night, as I was putting a sleepy redhead to bed, I started thinking about how thankful I was that he hadn't been sick - as in the stomach virus that's going around everywhere right now...

Saturday night I was singing in our church's Christmas cantata.

Sunday was of course more church, to be followed by an afternoon with my parents, sister, and brother-in-law - all coming to Sunday evening's Christmas cantata, which I was again singing in.

For lunch we fed the redhead one of the greatest comfort foods of all time - mac and cheese, along with some fruit to throw in something healthy and nestled him snug in his bed a few minutes after his meal.

He only slept MAYBE 30 minutes as opposed to his usual 2 hour nap. I was a little annoyed, but figured he was excited about seeing "Nona" and "Papa".

I ran out to do a little errand and came home to find Mr. Baseball with the redhead in the rocking chair. MB said the redhead had been crying, so he was just spending some quiet time with the boy. JUST as I was about to leave the room, the redhead started in on his schpiel of "ahh done" (all done). This proclamation was followed by not a trickle or a flow, but rather a CASCADE of vomit. I was so horrified I didn't know what to do. Mr. Baseball took the brunt of it, followed by the redhead's clothes, his books, rocking chair, and floor. I ran to get towels, grabbed the redhead (who was now sobbing hysterically), and took him to the bathroom. We got everything cleaned up and my redhead, bless his sweet little heart, kept repeating, "mess, mess, mess, mess...". Poor little dear was more worried about the mess than the fact that he had recieved some terrible stomach virus. We assured him that the mess could be cleaned up and I went to sit with him on the sofa to watch Noggin. A few minutes later, I called my parents (who were about an hour away at this point) to tell them that there was vomiting. The redhead was sitting with Mr. Baseball watching tv when all of a sudden...another round...and another change of clothes for Mr. Baseball and son.

My sister and her husband arrive to find a puny redhead snuggled up in my lap. At this point, I had managed (somehow) to avoid becoming the target. I needed to get some laundry in, so I said, "Mr. Baseball, will you take the redhead while I get some laundry started - and so he can throw up on you again?"

Redhead went to sit with daddy and a few minutes later...prophecy fulfilled.

Mr. Baseball changed clothes a grand total of 4 times yesterday - the redhead was changed 3 times and threw up a total of 6 times. He slept 12 hours last night without waking up and asked for juice this morning. I'm still a little on edge and trying not to eat too much just in case this Christmas "gift" decides to visit my innards. I, however, do not want this "gift" and will promptly return it. The only problem is...I don't know where it came from.

Fortunately for us, Wal-Mart will take anything back.

"Dr." Caroline will not be with us today as we don't want to give her this priceless "gift", but I could sure use her medical expertise as demonstrated here - I think she was "removing" the redhead's tonsils.

silent night

October 3rd, 2008 - the day the redhead turned two. Also the day that the floodgates of his vocabulary opened. Mr. Baseball and I welcomed this flurry of new words with excitement. We "oohed" and "aahed" at his sweet little voice saying things like..."Mama, hug", "myrrh joof peas" (more juice please), and "tay too" (thank you). But nothing could have prepared me for how my heart would melt when he finally said, "I wuv you". I was butter in his sticky little palms. Pure butta.

Even with all the preciousness, there does happen to be a downside. That would be that he REPEATS EVERYTHING...about a million times...even when I acknowledge what he is saying. I try to respond to him quickly, and take care of his need or continue the conversation - and that usually works.

Last night, after we read the plethora of bedtime books and were rocking, the redhead spotted a block on the floor behind the rocker and stated his findings to me. "Mama, block!...block...block...

Something in me just snapped.

I don't know if it was the fruity pebbles I had for dinner talking back or just the demented curiosity of a mother pushed to the edge of the cliffs of insanity but...

I said nothing.

Instead, I decided to count how many times he would repeat "block" if I stayed silent.





Yeah, um...NINETEEN times.




Then he started again..."block".




Nineteen more times.




That's thirty-eight times the word "block" was proclaimed into my right ear within a two-minute time frame.


I think Guinness needs to be notified. Either that or I should call the doctor to make sure there isn't some lasting brain damage from all the head trauma he's suffered at my hands (that's for you Lula).

No matter.


I just know at 7:30 every night, its gonna be a silent night and all will be calm.

my early morning gal pals

Meet Allie,




Annie,

and Alison (she's great for the self-esteem) from The Firm.

I have a standing appointment with them in my living room on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays around 6:30am. Yeah, its early. Yes, its hard to get out of bed. And yes, I try to talk myself out of it every time the alarm goes off.

However, they kick my butt, and its THE BEST feeling to know that at 7:30am my workout for the day is OVER.

I'm thinking that with my rave reviews of the workouts, I might be slated for a spot on the newest infomercial, whaddya think?


** This is where it would have been really funny to paste a picture of my head onto one of their bodies. Unfortunately that requires a program my computer lacks. And there is no way I'm taking a picture of myself at 6:30am in workout clothes. You would probably be able to smell my morning breath through the computer. So I'll spare you. But hey, maybe you'll get lucky enough to see pictures of my guns after I've worked on them a little bit longer.

cookie capers

Tracy P. at The Journey is having a Cookie Exchange today. I thought I'd pass along my No Bake Chocolate-Peanut Butter-Oatmeal Cookies. They are to. die. for. Melt-in-your-mouth deliciousness.

You will not be able to resist the goodness of these morsels. Truly.

I thought I had pictures from making a previous batch, but alas, not a pic to be found.

Darn. I guess I'll just have to make them again.

After all, a cookie post without pictures just isn't a cookie post.

Chocolate No-Bake Cookies

2 c. sugar

1/2 t. salt

1/4 c. cocoa

1/2 stick butter
1/2 c. milk
2 c. oats
1/2 c. peanut butter
1 t. vanilla

Mix sugar, salt, and cocoa in a medium saucepan.

Add butter and milk; bring to a boil, stirring continuously

Boil for 1 min 30 seconds
(this is very important and will affect how the cookies set up).



Remove from heat and add remaining ingredients, mix well.
Drop by spoonfuls onto wax paper. Allow to set in refrigerator.

These cookies make a simple but yummy treat to take to a Christmas party or special event. They taste so good, people will think you slaved away making them when all it really took was about 15 minutes and ingredients you already had in your pantry!

Enjoy!

q: what takes an hour, is very hot, tastes better than it looks, and leaves you wanting more?

Hey, get your mind out of the gutter...


a: a trip to get these bad boys...

fifteen

Amy over at Where Rubber Meets Road tagged me for a meme.

The rules are:

1) Link to the person who tagged you.
2) Post the rules on your blog
3) Write 15 random things about yourself (see below).
4) Tag 6 people at the end of your post and link to them.
5) Let each person know they have been tagged and leave
a comment on their blog.
6) Let the tagger know when your entry has been posted.

In the spirit of rebelliousness, I am NOT going to tag people at the end of my post, but I'll be glad to entertain you with 15 more random things about me.

1. I get these little shivers every now and then that make my body shake for about a second. Its really funny and catches people off guard when it happens. And I don't need to be cold for them to come.

2. I am very stubborn when it comes to taking medication or treating illnesses and just about have to be on my deathbed before I will take something.

3. I do not enjoy cleaning my house, but if I start to clean, something happens to me and I want to continue. I guess I like the feeling of clean.

4. I will make a to-do list just so I can cross things off. I love crossing things off.

5. I once forgot the entire verse to a song I was singing at church. Oops. If you must know it was Twila Paris' "The Warrior Is a Child".

6. I have never tried pickles and ice cream and have never known anyone else who has either.

7. I have been hit by a softball twice, by the same batter each time, during one game of softball. I should not have been pitching.

8. My first kiss was at 18 years old.

9. The second guy I kissed was Mr. Baseball. We're still kissing to this day.

10. I would rather be cold than hot and sweaty.

11. My mom made me start wearing a bra when I was in the 5th grade. On the FIRST day of school a guy made fun of me because of it and so for the next few weeks (during the Aug/Sept heat) I would wear a sweatshirt over my shirt. On the sweatshirt was written..."I don't want to grow up".

Cruel irony.

12. Every winter since I have been married, I have gotten a little rash under my wedding rings. I think it comes from washing my hands so often and not getting my fingers completely dry before putting my rings back on.

13. I am currently re-reading Twilight to erase the terrible memories (except for Rob Pattinson) I have of watching it in the theatre.

14. My favorite restaurant as a child was McDonald's (whose isn't), and every time we would travel to my grandparent's house, I would always "be hungry" on the way there just so I could get a cheeseburger from the coveted golden arches.

15. I wore braces twice and had major jaw surgery when I was 17.

(cue Looney Tunes music) Aah-bee-dee, aah-bee-dee...That's All Folks!

foot fetish

The redhead has become fascinated with his feet as of late. More specifically, he is fascinated with the lint that collects between his piggies. We call it "toe fuzz" and anytime he can get his socks off, he's on the hunt for some.

Really, it borders on obsession. I'm not sure this is healthy. See for yourself.

Don't let the cute little voice and the red hair fool you. He's capable of brainwashing anyone in order to get them to join forces with him. Case in point...

Lock your doors. Keep your socks on. Heck, keep your shoes on (he can't untie laces yet), but know this...

No one is safe.